Beauty and The Beast: Does Age Matter?

Beauty and The Beast Emailed Question of The Week:
Does Age Matter?

Beauty: Kendra Cunningham
Age shouldn’t be a dealbreaker. I strongly believe everybody should do whatever they want to do. The problem is most people don’t have the balls to admit what they want never mind act on it so instead they use cop outs like “ he’s too young” “she’s too old” or whatever other definitive closure they can grab onto. Plus there are a lot of people out there walking around feeling like shit about themselves so they don’t think anybody “good” could ever like them and when someone does they put them through all sorts of tests and torment to see “how much this person who is better than me really likes me”, ultimately sending the message “ I don’t like you enough to get beyond my own shit so this is gonna be a onesided relationship enjoyed primarily by me so I can have some sort of pleasure in my self loathing life”. Kendra Cunningham – The Relationship Cheerleader.

What matters is personality, character, and chemistry. Unfortunately, age does effect pretty much all those things. Most 24 year olds don’t have a strong character or personality for that matter. You see where I’m heading with this? OLDER is always better! HA. Every guy I’ve dated in the last ten years has been younger than me, including my boyfriend for three years who was ten years younger than me. I told you chemistry counts for a lot in my world. Point being, going out with someone younger is like buying a house on spec. You have a vision of what it will be like.

Other people confirm you are right, that is what it will be like. Too much is based on the future. Then three years later the house is done and there wasn’t enough money for the fireplace in the bedroom and the steam room walls split, rendering it unusable. The waterfall was handmade to cut costs. It’s nothing like you thought but there is no doubt in anybody’s mind–it’s all YOURS! Now you have to start thinking about how to sell it with as little collateral damage as possible.

Date people on current face value.

Now if I could only practice what I preach!

Pray for me, people.

Thanks for listening!

Kisses-

Kendra

Kendra is a stand up comic living in Brooklyn where she owns a super comfortable bed. She spends most of her time wondering where the hell her sugar daddy is and hoping he didn’t settle.

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The Beast: John Powers

Dating a younger girl whilst in High School and college is fantastic. You’re a Senior, she’s a Freshman. You’ve got years of experience and knowledge that she looks up to with reverence. She’s impressionable, and there are many things she has never seen before (fortunately she’s quite open-minded to learning…). Just make sure her parents like you, and be careful with her braces.
That small 3-year difference in age is hardly, if ever, a deal-breaker. It gets complicated in your 20′s. Now if you’re dating younger girls, they have never heard of Fraggle Rock… and they actually liked the Backstreet Boys.
Fortunately, that’s where cougars come along. Just as your patience wears thin with girls who have never heard of Soundgarden, you realize there’s an untapped well of maturity and sexual know-how bottled up in every unattached older woman. (no offense, Kendra) Strap in, young man… you’re in for the ride of a lifetime.
Age becomes less meaningful for men as we age due to our lack of internal clockage, as well as general desperation and lack of discerning tastes… we actually (generally) get better-looking as we age, and now we’ve got plenty of money to buy you stuff. It’s a win-win for the guys. My sincerest sympathies to the wrinkly, saggy old bachelorettes out there.

Love,
John

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